7 Do’s and Don’ts
Every Woman Should Know
Majority of Filipino women will not say anything about their desires, fantasies and preferences in the bedroom. This result to getting less than what they deserve from sex, and more often, they feel cheated out by themselves and their selfish men. To end this problem, iWoman brings you 5 sex etiquettes that will make sex more participatory and rewarding.
DON’T SUFFER IN SILENCE
First rule: Women should be open to say what they want in bed. Always remember that men are not your mind readers. In order for you to reach your peak, literally tell your partner what you really want them to do. Sex is also a give and take situation: if you want to get some you should also be willing to give something in return. When you want your partner to give you a mind blowing oral sex, do not be afraid to travel southward and play with “junior”.
DON’T COMPARE YOUR CURRENT BEAU TO YOUR EX
Don’t give him any idea how great your EX was in bed. Sure, he’s a great guy and you want to share some tips on how EX made you curl your toes while he’s down there. You will definitely hurt his ego and will turn your sexcapade into a total disaster.
DO MAKE A SOUND IF YOU NEED TO
You may be a screamer, a squealer, a moaner or a chirper — whatever sound you make, own it and never fake it. Expressing how you feel in the bedroom is important. Besides, nothing is creepier than having sex with a person who’s mute during the act.
DON’T FAKE YOUR ORGASM
The worse thing to do is fake an orgasm. Yes, we’ve all faked an orgasm from time to time and there’s absolutely no shame in it. But if you’re faking more than you’re experiencing mind-blowing orgasms, then you only have yourself to blame. Always remember that men want guidance but are too shy to ask. Therefore show him how you like it done.
DO GET CONSENSUS WHEN YOU WANT TO TRY SOMETHING NEW
When it comes to trying something new, always remember that it should both be consensual, you should never do anything against your will or if your partner would like to try something new. For instance, your partner likes to try anal sex but you aren’t comfortable with it, do tell him.
DON’T ALLOW PETS IN THE BEDROOM
This may sound funny but for those who live with their pets, never let them stay in the bedroom and watch you get it on. It is not only creepy but it is also a buzz kill for both you and your partner.
AND NOW THAT YOU”RE DONE WITH THE DEED, DO CLEAN UP
Another thing is after sex, you and your partner should both clean up, you both made it, you clean it and that is a non-negotiable rule. Don’t just automatically leave your partner alone in bed. Have a moment, appreciate one another and then clean up.
And lastly, don’t write off a guy with below average rating on the first time you have sex. The first time is usually a bit awkward with any new partner. Just like dancing, great sex takes practice so don’t get critical if you don’t get off the first time.
These are just some simple etiquettes to remember when your having sex, but do not make this the basis, it is just a reminder, in the end it is the mutual decision of both partners that is important. Nonetheless, enjoy every moment.
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